As with all types of sexual activity, gay sex brings with it many hot and kinky fetishes – something that is a little bit different from the same old vanilla sex which tends to get boring after a while. Domination is one popular gay fetish that men love to engage in, and it is a fetish which fully explores the top and bottom scenario. Let’s paint a typical picture of how domination works as a gay fetish.

Firstly, the top will order the bottom to strip so that he can give him a full inspection. He may choose to shave the bottom’s pubic hair so that his cock is smooth and easily accessible. Following this, the bottom is instructed to lie down so that he can be secured safely into his place – the top will likely use this opportunity to cuff the wrists and ankles of the bottom and lie him in a spread eagle position. Doing this also gives access to the bottom’s ass if he wishes to penetrate it.

Then it’s time for punishment. The top takes a long piece of string and ties up the bottom’s cock and balls so that they become extra sensitive. At this point, he may also choose to add some pegs for added sensations. Then he may choose to whip the cock or flick the balls of the bottom. Blindfolding him to ensure that he cannot see what is going on is a good way to heighten the senses of arousal as he doesn’t know which areas are going to be touched next, nor can he gauge the intensity.

When tied up, the bottom is purely there for the sexual pleasure of the top, and he may want to take full advantage of him. As he is tied down, there is nothing that can be done to prevent the top shoving his cock into the bottom’s mouth, stiffening up for anal penetration. Once the top’s penis has been appropriately prepared, the bottom is rearranged into a doggy style position so that he can penetrated anally. This opportunity can also be taken to stretch out the bottom’s ass with a variety of toys so that he becomes easier to have sex with.

The top loves this scenario as he is able to exert his full dominance in the relationship while the bottom is also more than satisfied, as he can let himself go and allow someone else to take control.

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